Rabbi Howard Tilman Congregation Beth Israel Scotch Plains, NJ Parashat Vayishlach
It’s hard not to think about Hanukkah at this time of year. Menorahs are coming out of their boxes, candles are on sale, and sufganiyot are becoming available. All of these symbols help us remember the messages of Hanukkah.
We traditionally think that Hanukkah celebrates two miracles. One is the miracle of the oil lasting for eight days when it only should have lasted one, and the second is the miraculous victory of the Maccabees, a victory of the weak and the few over the strong and numerous. Hanukkah reminds us to recognize and appreciate the miracles we see in our own lives each and every day. Yet even as we appreciate and celebrate miracles when they do occur, we are reminded not to rely on miracles. This message is emphasized in the opening scene of Parashat Vayishlach.
Jacob had left his brother behind many years ago, but now receives word that Esav is approaching him along with 400 men. The rabbis of the Talmud use this to teach us that we should never knowingly put ourselves in danger and assume a miracle will occur to save us. As Jacob prays to God in this moment he says, “I am unworthy of all the kindness that You have so steadfastly shown Your servant.” (Gen 32:11) Here, Jacob knows he has benefited from miracles earlier in his life, but is worried he is not worthy of them to continue benefiting from God’s protection. He knew it would take a miracle for him and his family to survive.
Yet even though we do not rely on miracles, they still do occur. Jacob does reconcile with Esav, and the lights of the Menorah did shine on longer than they should have. Reading Vayishlach so close to Hanukkah reminds us of that. We always strive not to leave things solely in God’s hands, instead working to prepare ourselves for any outcome, while still praying for the best. It is in those moments when the miracles we seek are most likely to occur because it is only through the partnership of God and humanity that we are able to bring about miracles together. As we prepare for Hanukkah to begin, let’s remember to appreciate the miracles we have, while also remembering the hard work it takes to bring them about.