Community Rabbi Corner, Feb. 1, 2019

Rabbi Steven Bayar
Congregation B’nai Israel
Millburn, NJ
Parashat Mishpatim

I have always considered Mishpatim as the “fine print” to the Covenantal contract. It is almost as if God tells the Israelites, “O. K., now that you have accepted the Ten Commandments, here are the other 603.”
The only theme that seems to bind these mitzvot together is one of community. Here are the laws one needs in order to have and maintain order.  According to this text, one of the most important values in any community is the ability of each person to look out for the welfare of the other.
 When a man opens a pit,
 or digs a pit 
and does not cover
 it and an ox or an ass falls into it,
 the one responsible for the pit must make restitution. 
He shall pay the price to the owner, 
but shall keep the dead animal.
We have learned that the mitzvah of Al Ta’amod pertains to someone in danger. If you see someone at risk, you must help them. Mishpatim further defines this commandment. If you see a situation that could put someone at risk, you must help. In this case, you are not allowed to dig a pit unless you make sure it is safe and cannot harm others. We are required to think about our actions, to worry about how what we do affects others and to take steps to insure the safety of those around us.
We are not allowed to mistreat others. Everyone is deserving of respect.  
You shall not wrong a stranger or oppress him 
for you were strangers in the land of Egypt.  
You shall not ill treat any widow or orphan. 
If you do mist
reat them,
I will heed their outcry as soon as they cry out to me…
These verses are fascinating. Consider this: The Israelites were slaves in Egypt for 400 years before God heard their cries and redeemed them. Yet, only several chapters removed from the Exodus, God is telling these same Israelites that if they oppress the stranger (the stranger!) or mistreat the widow or orphan, God will immediately listen to them and take action.
What does this mean? Can the cry of one widow or orphan compare to 400 years of slavery? Perhaps within a Covenant community the answer is yes. We have now been given a standard of behavior. We must adhere to it or our community cannot last. Thus, we see that the community is not healthy unless we can eradicate Lashon Harah.

You must not carry false rumors


Questions for Discussion:
1.         If you were writing the Ten Commandments today, what would they be?
2.         How does Lashon Harah destroy communities?
3.         How do members of your community/family look out for each other?  Give examples.
4.         What can you do to start looking out for others?